Lighthouse Mediation was established by Nichola Gough, an accredited mediator and collaborative Family Lawyer with over 20 years experience.

Nicky offers a highly professional, yet friendly approach to Family Law and Mediation recognising that family disputes can be extremely stressful. Nicky is an accredited child consultant, if parents wish to consider this as part of the mediation process.

After graduating from Cambridge University Nicky practised law with a national law firm Pinsent Masons before spending over 7 years in Uganda as part of the management team for Mengo Hospital in Kampala, whilst also working with local Lawyers and Non-Government Agencies on a variety of aid projects.

On returning to the UK Nicky joined Christian Aid as a legacy officer, studied for a Masters Degree in Law and Development at Warwick University followed by a Masters Degree in Development Management from the Open University.

In 2008 Nicky went to Palestine as an International Peace Volunteer and worked with organisations both in Israel and Palestine engaged in conflict of resolution.  As part of her work there she produced a research paper on organisations working in conflict situations.

Nicky has been a member of the Law Societies Children Panel, is a former Trustee of a housing charity, of the Sunshine Children’s centre and the Banbury Therapy Centre. She is a member of Resolution, the National Association for Family Lawyers and is a trained Collaborative Lawyer as well as a Mediator – being a founder member of the North Oxfordshire Collaborative Group.  She is a voluntary representative for TraidCraft a member of the Howard League for Penal Form and of Amnesty International. Now in Norfolk, Nicky works part time as a consultant solicitor for Steele’s Law in Norwich and is a member of the Norfolk Wildlife Trust.

As a keen cyclist, Nicky averages over 200 miles a week.  She has five children of her own which has given her plenty experiences of the realities of family life.

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Your quiet calming presence was reassuring
Mrs S, Stratford

It was not an easy process but by the end we both felt that you had helped us to come to a fair agreement.
Mr & Mrs A, Chipping Norton

I felt able to have my say.
Mrs LB, Kineton

I really appreciated Nicky’s willingness to work around our schedules
Mr & Mrs S, Banbury & Brighton

The approach is to get the job done but with a very personal touch.
RN, Cheltenham

It was useful to have someone in the room who was not going to lose it and could even bring us to see some creative alternatives
Mr J, Banbury